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The Kids Wheel

Because “use your words” only works if they know the words.

  • Builds emotional vocabulary
  • Supports honest communication (earlier)
  • Reduces meltdowns and misunderstandings
  • Fits into real life

A Step By Step Guide

  1. Identify Body Sensation Each petal on The Kids Wheel represents a general bodily sensation signified by the icon toward the center. Find the base that best represents what they are feeling in their body.
  2. Identify the Emotion Move your attention to the rest of the selected petal. Read through the potential emotions and select the word or icon that best captures their emotional state.
  3. Take Action Flip over the wheel to view the backside of that same petal. Read through the potential actions steps for dealing with the identified emotion and then, take action!
  4. Process After engaging in the selected action, take a moment to see if they are feeling different than before, if the selected action seemed to help, or how it felt to express their emotion.

The research that inspired us

Why Helping Kids Name Their Feelings Matters

Here’s the thing: kids aren’t born knowing how to talk about their feelings… they learn it. And the earlier they do, the better. Research shows that when children can recognize and name what they’re feeling, it changes everything, from how they handle frustration to how they connect with other people.

Here’s why it matters:

• Emotional Smarts = Life Smarts: Naming emotions builds emotional intelligence and that’s tied to better friendships, stronger school performance, and a healthier headspace.

• Fewer Meltdowns, More Self-Control: When kids can say, “I’m mad” or “I’m nervous,” they’re better at managing their reactions instead of letting those feelings run the show.

• Better Communication: Labeling feelings helps kids express themselves in ways adults (and other kids) actually understand. That means fewer misunderstandings and more empathy all around.

• Healthy Coping Skills: Once kids know what they’re feeling, they can figure out how to deal with it, whether that’s asking for help, taking a break, or finding a solution.

• Long-Term Mental Health: Early emotional awareness can lower the risk of anxiety and depression later on by teaching kids that feelings are meant to be expressed, not bottled up.

At Feelings Found, we believe emotional literacy is just as important as learning to read or do math, because it’s a skill they’ll use for the rest of their lives. That’s why we made The Kids Feelings Wheel: a simple, colorful tool that helps children (and the adults in their lives) put words to what’s going on inside.

Because when kids can name it, they can navigate it.

Denham, S. A. & Burton, R. (2003). Social-emotional prevention programs for preschoolers. In Handbook of Child Psychology (6th ed.). This work discusses the foundation of emotional competence and its impact on social interactions and emotional health.

Zins, J. E., Bloodworth, M.R., Weissberg, R.P., & Walberg, H. J. (2004). The scientific base linking social and emotional learning to school success. Social and Emotional Learning: What the Research Says. This resource provides evidence on how emotional and social skills contribute to academic success.

Goleman, D. (1995). Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ. This book popularized the concept of emotional intelligence and discusses how recognizing and managing emotions can lead to better outcomes in life.

FAQ

Everyone! We believe that every person can benefit from a tangible tool to identify and express their feelings.

Emotional curiosity is valuable to people of all ages. Many of our tools can be utilized by people of any age. If you’re ready to work on emotional curiosity with younger children, we recommend using this tool together.

No, not at all! Our therapeutic tools are a great tool to use inbetween therapy sessions If you're struggling, use a directory like www.psychologytoday.com to find a therapist.

We love working with large organizations to bring emotional literacy tools to their clients/students. Email us at hello@feelingsfound.com or visit our Customization page to learn more about our bulk order process.

Of course they are! Our Chief Clinical Officer is a licensed professional counselor and reviews research that is used to inspire products.