



The Needs Wheel
Sometimes we do know how we feel (anxious, resentful, drained) but we still have no clue what we actually need to feel better. Spoiler: it's probably not another iced coffee or “just pushing through.”
The Needs Wheel is here to help you move from “I don’t even know what I need” to “Ah, maybe I need some rest. Or support. Or literally just a snack.”
It’s a simple but powerful tool that bridges the gap between your emotions and the unmet needs underneath them. The ones you’ve been taught to ignore, downplay, or override.
Use it in therapy, with your partner, or mid-breakdown on your lunch break. Whether you’re building boundaries, having hard conversations, or just trying to not explode on the group chat, this tool helps you name what matters. Without the guesswork.