The Needs Wheel

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Because doomscrolling is not a need.

Knowing how you feel is only half the equation.

Most of us can eventually land on "anxious" or "drained" or "completely done." But figuring out what you actually need? That's where things get murky.

The Needs Wheel bridges the gap between emotions and the unmet needs underneath them. The ones we've been taught to ignore, downplay, or override. It moves you from "I have no idea what I need" to "oh - maybe rest. Or support. Or literally just a snack."

Simple, powerful, and endlessly useful in therapy, relationships, and everyday life.

What you'll develop:
- Clarity on what your emotions are actually asking for
- Better self-advocacy in relationships
- A go-to tool for conflict resolution and communication

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Material: Durable cardstock laminate and metal eyelet for swivel ability
Size: 4.75" x 5.7"
Weight: .8 oz
Portable - bag friendly

Individuals working on self-awareness and communication.
Couples and partners navigating conflict.
Therapists using needs-based approaches.
Anyone who struggles to ask for what they need.

Pairs perfectly with The Feelings Wheel.

Bulk pricing available on orders of 50+. Popular with therapists, counselors, and relationship coaches. Custom branding available.

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Free shipping on US orders $65+ (bulk orders are excluded)
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Returns accepted within 30 days of delivery
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How it Works

Step 01

Find your base emotion

Each petal on The Needs Wheel represents a base emotion. Find the base that you feel best represents your current emotional state.

Step 02

Identify your need

Read through the options in the rows above to locate your unmet need. These options include what you might feel is missing or what you’re yearning for. Read through the options, and pick one that resonates with you.

Step 03

Discover a solution

Read through the options in the third row for how to meet the need you’ve chosen. You can use our ideas as a starting point to brainstorm your own.

After identifying your specific emotion, be sure to reflect on it. A couple options for processing this could include journaling about the feeling, talking with a friend, or taking notes to bring to your next therapy session.